I want to have your ideas on what I should force my sissy husband to do, as well as everyday feminization and or sissification that I can force on him.
Please put your ideas in the comments!!!
Thanks! – Jessica
Need your ideas!! Please comment!
January 25th, 2010
Hello Ms Jessica,
In my humble opinion, I think the best thing is to make this life normal for both of you. I hope we can contact via email.
bim
Drinking sperm from his used condom is a great step as is having him wear panties at all times. Hell, I like all of your rules. In addition to those, I recommend curtsy training. I didn’t read any mention of him being given a girls name. He should be writing down for you how he feels to be your girl and coming up with his own ideas of how he can better serve or become even more feminine. He should be pushed to believe he wants to be your girl as opposed to you forcing it on him. Forcing is appropriate of course until the girl is ready to be your girl on command. I’d also like to see him undergoing regular fellatio training and eventually licking his sperm from it upon command. Also consider emptying the condom in his ass so that he feels the sperm running from his ass until he’s ready for someone else’s sperm to be running from his ass. Plenty more where that came from but good for now – cheers!
mmmm thanks for your input, a lot of good ideas in there! You are totally right.. he needs to learn to want to be my sissy, and start yearning to be more feminized. I need to make sure he is listening to his hypnosis more often.
I’d like to hear more about your fellatio training idea!
I love what you said Cuckhusb, especially:
“He should be pushed to believe he wants to be your girl as opposed to you forcing it on him. Forcing is appropriate of course until the girl is ready to be your girl on command.”
It should become something normal that he’s feminine, not stay something forced, as it means he’s unhappy in that. This might be good in the first stage but after that it should become something normal. He should love being fem, and you should express your love for him as fem.
The way you penetrate him should be very meaningful and increase his femininity. It should reflect your “gender-role-reversal” rather than just a form of bdsm. The more this lifestyle become normal, the more love and less force there would be.
I suggest you penetrate him as often as possible, every time you need sex. Make it the “normal” way of having sex, not something strange. Let him feel you’re powerful, strong, and fit better than him as the penetrator. Play with his nipples as you do him. If possible, sleep wearing your strapon dildo and him wearing panties.
I love that you told your girlfriend. I think every wife should do so, but it should be to a close friend whom he and you can share your inner feelings. Let him express to her how much he loves his femininity, and how much he feel happy and satisfied when you penetrate him.
If you don’t mind, let your girlfriend join, but mainly let her express to him how much she loves to fuck his ass. It’s important that she initiates (after your approval) and you watch.
When you’re alone home, try to be the whole day wearing your strap on dildo and have sex as much as you like both. It is good if you initiate it too, the same as it is good if he initiate it as a fem.
Let it be normal and loving too that he kisses your feet as often as you can. Do not be extremely and overly feminine. Many males get more and more fem if they are with masculine (or slightly masculine) women.
my points are mainly general, but believe are more the basis for real feminization. I hope you find them interesting.
At your feet,
bim
save up his cum in a ice cube tray and make him suck on the cum cube or put it in his asshole so he can feel cum in his ass all day
I finally found the site again! I’ve been looking for a few weeks!
Ms. Jessica you are utterly fantastic in your push, and from what I read, your unwavering determination in sissifying you husband!
He’s a lucky man to have a wife like you… to have a Mistress like you.
I initially sent my Mistress your list of rules, I don’t think it will be long before I show her your blog.
On the suggestions above, I agree that you want him to want to be your girl. Ensure that he begs to take your cock in his ‘pussy’. Only ever let him cum when he’s being penetrated. Encourage him to moan like a whore… or… like ’some teenaged slut getting fucked’.
I also agree with your assessment that if he’s ready to cum, he’s ready to drink it. That is, after all, the sissy’s role.
KNBssissy
KNBSissy,
This is S/m more than love for strapon sex. For me, i prefer the woman who LOVES to penetrate and who INITIATES that I love the woman who feels that being the penetrator is natural to her, and she needs it without sadism or whatever. If sadism is what drives her into strapon sex, then she’d be more into sadism.
Dear KNBSissy, please no offense. I respect what you love, and i just expressed what i love. kissesss
bim
bim,
None taken. Though I don’t see any sadism in my loves… regardless, I agree with and love what you wrote. I too would love a woman that feels being the penetrator is natural to her.
All is well.
KNBssissy
make him refer to his cock as his clitty and his asshole as his pussy. i also agree that he should only be able to cum with somthing in his pussy. my mistress has me wearing panties all the time and i must either drink or save my cum when i am allowed
I guess I should clarify something that I don’t always make clear on the blog. I caught him in my panties… thats when I discovered his need to be more feminine. I have taken that to the next level, and gosh do I love doing it, making him my little sissy. Although I force him, give him no option, I know that he secretly loves it….
Thank you for your input KNBssissy, I made sure that he was moaning like a porn star when I was fucking him in his maid out fit (see the latest post) on your suggestion. He’s always been quiet, but I made him loud, and it got me even more turned on, hearing him moan as I penetrated him.
I think you both have the same idea essentially – I’m not in it to hurt my husband and get off on that, I love the power of bending him over and sliding my strapon into his ass. Its the same reason that I love feminizing him… making him my sissy…
Hello Ms Jessica,
I love very much the way you think of strapon sex. Yes, it’s not a matter of pain. The beauty of it is not fetish. The real beauty is discovering and living the two sides of the person. I strongly promote pegging and hope every couple practise it on a regular basis. Every woman would enjoy to touch with her masculine side and feel the power of being the penetrator, and every male would enjoy getting in touch with his feminine side and the beauty of submitting.
Femdom through strapon sex makes the relation hotter, sexier, more satisfying for both, and most important, it should make the relation more loving.
Besides, i strongly believe women are better penetrators even if they do not have penises. Most women with strapons show they are better penetrators than men. I believe this is for three reasons. (1) Women have masculine sides the same as males have feminine sides; so they embrace this side once they reveal it. (2) In general, women have stronger lower body parts then men. (3) Women in general have a controlling personality, and being the penetrators coincides with this.
I am sure strapon sex would become the norm soon. We just need to get accustomed with this change. In the past, there were some problems when the woman gained power in the field work, but now it is totally accepted. Here this is the same. Women will also gain the power of penetration. We will ultmately reach androgyny because this is our own nature. Even homosexuality would be of the past. Why would i seek a man if i love being penetrated; the woman can do so for me. Likewise, many women think they are lesbians just because they love being penetrators or because they love their partners to be feminine. I hope soon women start to pack dildos under their pants as they go out.
at your feet,
bim
The most beautiful things in strap on sex is when the woman feels power and gets in touch with her masculine side in bed, and when he feels submissive to her and gets in touch with his fem side in bed.
The male slave, your husband, should be taught three positions that proffer his ass wonderfully for spanking or strap on play. But also leaves his head in a position that allows easy mounting for oral pleasures or for delivering the golden flow direct from the hairy Goddess fount into his eager mouth. These positions need only standard easy chair and or sofas. Invite friends who might be interested in the scene over for coffee. Let him give the “spiel”. Here he bares his soul. The deep urges of his inner psyche that make the really complete submissive pour out. Make sure he is good at this role. Lots of practice is the key.
“When addressed as “slave” reason departs–I strictly obey Thus no opprobrium attaches to any thing she orders. That which I might hesitate to initiate becomes my deep desire. Groveling most intimate body worship. supreme humiliation, and imaginative corporal are wonderful rewards under her guidance.”
You order, “strip slave! Get it hard…………. Now come close, let each lady touch and play.”
They hesitant. “Be not coy, ladies. You have had experience. Get at it! Pinch it, slap it, squeeze ‘em, make him fairly jump and dance. There, yes, yank it a bit” After a bit of lively action you order:
Position 1.”
His ass goes over chair back, his neck in chair seat, head extends slightly out from seat. . Legs are spread and pointed upward.
Taking a whippy crop you tickle, then flick. “Ladies, using a naked male to ones utter satisfaction is the ‘piece de resistance.’ Then a hard whap across the left cheek. Now balls are kneaded, then squeezed hard .” Now you give your spiel on the joys of using a submissive male. Detailed and nitty gritty–from your inner soul pour mesmerizing techniques. The girls are entranced by the sight, the happening, and of your obvious love of this activity. Each lady takes a turn with a different special whip. You demo strap on service. In between, from time to time as nature calls he receives their golden nectar. The ladies are indeed interested. They will be back for more demo.